Two principles to make you work better

I used to be very proud of myself and thought that I would be a good worker who
would be liked by every colleague and every boss, because I've received good school education for decades. But in reality, we are all that new worker who is always suffered from frustration and not welcomed well by the Boss and other colleagues in the TV show.

The saying goes well, "There are people who can grow and turn mature quickly if suffered from many setbacks in life." Yes, it is because of one-year experience in work, I've learned the better way to get along with others. In a word, to become the best worker, two inseparable principles, one called admitting responsibilities and saying after thinking twice; the other is to communicate and solve the problems perfectly when encountering the problems.

What is admitting responsibilities? Remain silent, which means not to talk back and listen to the admonition from boss or leader. When the bad things happen, all the reasons to explain are unuseful in the eyes of the leaders. At that bad moment, if you still use reasons to justify, it only can increase the anger of others and make the atmosphere more stiff and worse. The best wisdom way to do is to admit your responsibility, and it is time to think and think, why you are criticized by the boss? Where was wrong? Do you stand on the right position? May be you should think more and more before solving the trouble in the future. In short, no matter what critics you are suffered, do remember that admit your responsibility is the wisest choice.

Finding ways to solve problems is what we always do in life, but we are always on the preliminary stage to solve the problem and just to choose give up when we meet the block on the way to solve the problem. And later, when the boss talks about this problem, we are proudly stick to previous findings. In fact, it is more awful when you find problem but not solve it well in the eyes of boss. The work without results can only be illusory and just a waste of time and money. Faced with problems, it is important to learn to talk with others and then solve the problems step by step. Always remember the problem and follow-up question, then the problem can be easily solved, and only in this way, your ability can be truly reflected.

In fact, it is very common to suffer criticize in work and no one can avoid for this. But how to work and live better? I think admitting responsibilities and solve problems inevitably are the most important ways to work and along with others. If you follow these two principles well, your life and work will be much better.

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Good future from good mentality

I heard a very interesting story which is related to the state of mind. Maybe someone has already read it, but you can see again and tell yourself that the good state of mind is very important and good future come from good state of mind again.

A long time ago, there was a scholar who had failed two imperial examinations. One night before his third exam, he lived in a dilapidated teahouse. And he had a dream that night which including three parts. In the first fragment, he planted cabbage in the high wall. In the second fragment, he was already wearing a bamboo hat but he also hold up an umbrella in the rain. In the last fragment, he and a girl were sitting back to back on the bed, did nothing.

He felt curious, and always thought the meaning of this dream. However, the meaning is always unpredictable, so he came out and asked an old man that the meaning of the dream contains.

The old man thought for a while and gave him an analysis. He said, you would failed the exam again. First, it is unuseful that you planted the cabbage in high wall, did not wast time? Second, With a bamboo hat when you have an umbrella in rainy, did not superfluous? As for the last one that you and a girl sit on the bed back to back, not mean the game is over? Suddenly, Scholar felt frustrated and thought that the exam would failed once again.

Then, He went back to the teahouse, hold his parcel and decided to go home. The teahouse boss felt curious and asked him why went home rather than had exams. Scholar told his dream and words of the old man told. Teahouse Boss smiled and said:"you are wrong and you should take the exam" "Why?" becuase your dream mean that you can acquire fame certainly! You see, planting cabbage in the high wall means that "Gaozhong"? Wearing a bamboo hat and hold an umbrella means that you have adequate preparation? As for you and a girl sitting back to back on the bed suggested that it is time you have a turn."

The words of teahouse owner touched scholar deeply. He thought a while and said yes. . How can I not take an exam? So, he went into the examination room with a full passion. Finally, He won the third and gained success.

Maybe this is only a story, but The implication of its meaning is still applicable today. Good mind, good feature. For everything, we should have an optimistic mind, and believe that they will bring luck to me whether good or bad thing. For example, when you failed, you should stand up again because failure is just a challenge which will made you more strong. When you lose your job, you should think that there will be more choose for you and you can experience more fun of other work.

As the saying goes: "When Living close a door for you, it will open another door for you too" Yes, but it requires good state of mind.So, keep happy and optimistic mood, your future must be wonderful.

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